Grilling Etiquette — Your guide to the dos and don’ts of BBQing

There’s been a real move in recent times towards cooking outdoors — even across the cooler months. There’s something quite ritualistic about preparing food in the fresh air that cooking in a kitchen can’t compete with, and the flavour cooking with smoke brings is unmatched.

Often overlooked as simple, manning the grill realistically requires you to cook the most fundamental parts of any meal. And while cooking a steak is hardly Masterchef-worthy, cooking one well is. With great power comes great responsibility (no one likes a burnt ribeye), so if you find yourself tasked with the role of grill master, make sure you are well-equipped for the job. The Ninja Woodfire Electric BBQ Grill & Smoker is a great place to start, and our definitive guide to grilling etiquette below will help you on your way to mastery. You’re welcome.

01.

‘All the gear, no idea’ very much applies to grilling. What you wear to grill makes a statement, and as such, should be approached with careful consideration. This isn’t an episode of King of the Hill, so leave your ratty, misshapen white tees in the draw, instead opting for an all-black ensemble to keep things sleek and practical. To take your grilling prowess up a notch, a ‘Kiss the Chef’ apron is essential.

02.

Equipment is everything. And while this goes without saying, your dad’s archaic, hand-me-down BBQ from the 90s has got to go. It’s 2024, and things have moved (well) on. Take the Ninja Woodfire Electric BBQ Grill & Smoker, for example. Outside of being a BBQ grill, it also acts as a foolproof smoker, air fryer, and tool for baking, roasting, dehydrating and reheating — all in one, sleek appliance which, thanks to woodfire technology, easily creates rich woodfire flavour with 100% real wood pallets.

03.

Don’t drink and grill. While a cold one is as essential a grilling accoutrement as a pair of tongs, overdoing it won’t bode well for anyone involved. Keep it civilised with one or two until after the cooking is complete, and all will remain in perfect, edible order.

04.

Timing is everything. Overcooked BBQ food is the worst, and undercooked meat is a big no-no, which means that those in charge of the grill need to remain laser-focused at all times. Or, if you’re smart (and can’t be trusted to go it alone), look to the Ninja Woodfire Electric BBQ Grill & Smoker’s integrated Smart Probe, which makes achieving perfectly cooked meat as simple as the touch of a button. Work smarter, not harder, people.

05.

Fake it ’til you make it. These days, becoming an expert griller is much simpler than it once was, thanks, in large part, to the tech associated with the modern-day BBQ. Impress your family, friends, and in-laws with your BBQing prowess by ensuring you choose a grill that does the heavy lifting for you, meaning all that’s left to do is shuffle sausages while giving unsolicited advice on the difference between sous vide and poaching.

06.

Tomato sauce is for toddlers and has no place at social gatherings. Inviting friends around for a BBQ is all fun and games until the tomato sauce comes out. Never, ever slap a bottle of Wattie’s on the table when hosting — it’s social suicide. Instead, ensure your fridge is well-stocked with upper-crust condiments, or, if you really want to win friends and influence people, a homemade tomato sauce goes down a treat.

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Our cover star Jess Hong on serendipity, self-expression, and not sweating the small stuff

Words by Margie Riddiford | Photography by Olivia Kirkpatrick | Styling by Claire Sullivan-Kraus | Creative Direction by Anna Saveleva | Videography by Devan Narsai | Shot on location at Ayrburn, Arrowtown

From drama school in Wellington to starring in one of Netflix’s most significant shows of the year, Jess Hong has enjoyed the kind of break-through that most actors can only dream of. Shortly after graduating from Toi Whakaari, Hong landed the leading role in a highly-anticipated new series by the creators of Game of Thrones, offering her the opportunity to work with a cast and crew of industry legends and catapulting her onto the world stage overnight. And while her acclaimed turn as Jin Cheng in 3 Body Problem has given her an unprecedented platform, it feels like it is just the beginning for this talented Kiwi actor. 

Jess wears cashmere cable knit jumper from Dadelszen, Tiffany HardWear Graduated Link Necklace, Medium Link Necklace, Bold Graduated Link Necklace all from Tiffany & Co.

It was the kind of call that all actors dream of receiving from their agent. After four months of Zooms, auditions, chemistry reads and character work, Kiwi actor Jess Hong, sitting in her flat in Auckland, was offered the leading role in a new Netflix series by David Benioff, Dan Weiss and Alexander Woo — the creators of HBO’s pop-culture-defining Game of Thrones. Titled 3 Body Problem (adapted from the book trilogy by Liu Cixin of the same name), it was predicted to be one of the biggest releases of the year, and Hong, in what was basically her first professional job out of drama school, would be number one on the call sheet. 

Born and raised in Palmerston North by a single, immigrant mother, Hong initially discovered acting as a way to combat shyness and social anxiety, realising that the process of escaping into various characters facilitated self-expression in ways that her other creative pursuits did not. “It was catharsis on a whole new level,” she tells me, “but I didn’t understand that it could actually become a career.” 

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It was at Wellington’s Toi Whakaari drama school that Hong was able to hone her craft, the place where she was challenged to grow and explore more deeply her inner world, emerging with a much stronger sense of who she was and how she could harness that in her work. “I learned about collaboration and communicating with other artists,” she says, “but it was also a great way of reflecting on myself and being more aware of how I impact the people and the world around me.” And while her first official gig after graduating was a travelling theatre production for children in schools, she had already secured representation with one of New Zealand’s preeminent agents, had connected with a manager in the United States, and was firing off self-tapes for various projects, including one that would change the trajectory of her career in ways she couldn’t have imagined. “When I was offered the role in 3 Body Problem, I screamed my head off and ran around the house,” Hong tells me, reliving that unforgettable moment, “and then I had to pack my things and move to London a few weeks later.” (Her first time visiting the city.)

“[acting] was catharsis on a whole new level, but I didn’t understand that it could actually become a career.” 

Jess wears Origami pleat dressfrom Sportmax, Tiffany T T1 Bangle in Rose Gold, T T1 Bangle in Gold medium, Lock Bangle in Yellow Gold with Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings, Lock Bangle in White Gold with Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

It’s an incredible story — destined to become one of those urban fables that young actors whisper to each other backstage or in casting agency waiting rooms. After all, what happened to Hong could happen to anyone, right? And while that may well be true, it was only a few minutes into our interview that I realised, with her laid back demeanour and thoughtful, intelligent answers, how this particular actor felt uniquely suited to her extraordinary circumstances. Perhaps, luck really didn’t have much to do with it at all. 

Jess wears double breasted overcoat from Rory William Docherty, belt from Gucci, thigh high boots (stylist’s own), Tiffany HardWear Bold Graduated Link Necklace in Yellow Gold, HardWear Large Link Earrings in Yellow Gold with Pavé Diamonds from Tiffany & Co.

For someone only just emerging into this industry, Hong’s attitude to its famously cut-throat nature is grounded in reality, and her calm, quiet commitment to her craft seems to override any risk of getting swept up in fanfare. When the self tape request for what was then called ‘Untitled Benioff Project’ landed in her inbox, and even when she had met the creators and was five or six steps into the audition process, Hong tells me that she never allowed herself to assume anything, choosing instead to focus on drawing what she could from each moment of the process. “I guess my strategy for avoiding whiplash from all the rejection of this industry was to lower my expectations to the floor,” she tells me. “So even if I had made it to the final stage for this role without getting it, of course I would have been disappointed, but I would have refused to let it crush me.” 

Jess wears double breasted overcoat from Rory William Docherty, belt from Gucci, thigh high boots (stylist’s own), Tiffany HardWear Bold Graduated Link Necklace in Yellow Gold, HardWear Large Link Earrings in Yellow Gold with Pavé Diamonds from Tiffany & Co.

“When I was offered the role in 3 Body Problem, I screamed my head off and ran around the house, and then I had to pack my things and move to London a few weeks later.” 

It would be understandable for any young actor faced with the chance at a break-through role in such a major production, to lose themselves slightly to the scope of the project. But for Hong, beyond the people and juggernaut streaming service involved, lay a carefully crafted, skilfully written character that felt complex and real to her — and that, she tells me, is what she kept coming back to. 

Jess wears Celine Cardigan Jacket in brushed mohair, Alaïa bodysuit, Alaïa skirt, Gianvito Rossi Ellipsis pumps from Faradays, Tiffany HardWear Large Link Bracelet in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Graduated Link Necklace in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in White Gold with Pavé Diamondsall from Tiffany & Co.

In 3 Body Problem, Hong plays Jin Cheng, a genius physicist who is part of a group of scientists referred to as the ‘Oxford Five’, each of whom, over the course of the show’s eight episodes, are faced with mysterious (and sometimes deadly) circumstances brought about by extraterrestrial interference. Eventually, Jin finds herself at the heart of an international team whose job is to figure out how to fight a forthcoming alien invasion while the future of humanity hangs in the balance. “When I got the script, Jin was already very fully-fledged on the page because the writing was so good,” Hong explains. “In many ways, I felt an immediate kinship with her because, like she does, I get very focused on my work and obsessive about what I’m doing, so while I was definitely aware of the pressure of playing this role, I always returned to the fact that the stakes were higher for Jin. When I focused on that, the rest would fall away.”

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Another similarity between Hong and the character she plays, is that both have New Zealand accents, a detail that speaks to the ways in which Beinoff, Weiss and Woo invited collaboration from those in their production. “Not only were the guys on set every day but they were constantly talking to me about my character’s decisions,” Hong tells me, “and while they were overseeing this world that was being created, they really trusted me to oversee my character and to weave aspects of myself into Jin that made her feel seamless and truthful.” She pauses, “their commitment to quality and authenticity is something to be admired.”

“in its first full week on Netflix, [3 body problem] pulled in 15.6 million views sending it to the top of the international charts.”

Jess wears Celine Cardigan Jacket in brushed mohair, Alaïa bodysuit from Faradays, Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. Sixteen Stone ring with Diamond, Lock Ring in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, T T1 Wide Diamond Hinged Bangle in 18k White Gold, medium, HardWear Large Link Bracelet in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Graduated Link Necklace in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

Indeed, while the overarching premise of 3 Body Problem is that of high stakes sci-fi, the story itself (more rooted in hard science than fantasy-based fiction) comes alive in the quiet interactions between characters, rather than in adrenaline-pumping action sequences. Of course, there are certain scenes — particularly those in the show’s VR game component — that feel vast and otherworldly, brutal and transcendent, but the real beauty of this series, and perhaps a large part of why it has been so successful, is the way it takes time to build and introduce protagonists with whom audiences can truly connect, despite the fact that most of them are scientific geniuses tasked with saving the world. 

Jess Hong wears Nour Hammour Gotham coat from Muse, thigh high boots (stylist’s own), HardWear Graduated Link Necklace in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. Sixteen Stone Ring with Diamond, Lock Ring in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

“I love how it’s got this macro-micro thing going,” says Hong, “where on the macro scale, the show is a spectacle, and offers a philosophical look at how humanity responds to an existential crisis — high concept stuff.” She pauses, “But on a micro level, it’s just about a guy facing his own mortality, a love story, a girl grappling with her moral compass, another one trying to figure out how to save everyone, a woman disillusioned with the world, and so many other threads and personalities that speak to different people and different genres.” Ultimately, what the show runners have tapped into is the fact that audiences wouldn’t care about the extraordinary circumstances of 3 Body Problem if they didn’t care about the characters. And by the end of the series, it is impossible not to. 

“what I really took away, is that nothing is permanent, especially in this business, so even if
I do think about the idea of being known I still feel like it’s just for now, not forever.”

Jess wears the hooded trench coat from Rory William Docherty, nylon dress from Prada, HardWear Bold Graduated Link Necklace in Yellow Gold, HardWear Medium Link Necklace in Yellow Gold with Diamonds, Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. Sixteen Stone ring with Diamonds, Lock Ring in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Bracelet in Yellow Gold with Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in Yellow Gold with Pavé Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

Beyond the backstory and character nuances of Jin, Hong tells me that playing a strong, intelligent woman of Asian descent, working at the top of her game in STEM, brought with it a sense of real responsibility, particularly given the size of the project (and the fact that mainstream television doesn’t have a great track record of doing such characters justice). “As a Chinese-New Zealander in the diaspora and in the arts, I’m always thinking about representation,” she tells me. “But working with someone like Rosalind Chao, who is such an icon, really put it into focus for me,” she pauses. “You know, she came up at a time when the roles available to her were like ‘Chinese Woman Number One’ and she fought tooth and nail to create the path that I get to walk down… I’m so grateful.” For Hong, the responsibility for her now is to build on the trailblazing progress of her predecessors, explaining to me how she hopes to continue their legacy.

Jess wears Celine Cardigan Jacket in brushed mohair, Alaïa bodysuit, Alaïa skirt from Faradays, HardWear Large Link Bracelet in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Graduated Link Necklace in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

This could very much end up the case, considering the ways in which 3 Body Problem has given Hong an unprecedented platform. In its first full week on Netflix, the series pulled in 15.6 million views sending it to the top of the international charts, with users increasingly tuning in as word about its compelling storyline and brilliant performances spread. I wonder how Hong feels about the strange phenomenon of becoming a ‘known’ actor virtually overnight, one of the inevitable side effects of such a sprawling production. “I don’t think about it,” she tells me with a laugh. Although she stops herself before saying, “I was actually talking to Liam Cunningham [the actor who plays Thomas Wade in 3 Body Problem] on set about being in Game of Thrones and the highs of being recognised when that was at its peak and then the simmering and quietening down of that in the years after it finished,” she says. “And what I really took away, is that nothing is permanent, especially in this business, so even if I do think about the idea of being known I still feel like it’s just for now, not forever.” 

Jess wears dress from Max Mara, Knot Double Row Necklace in White Gold with Diamonds from Tiffany & Co.

That said, ‘now’ for Hong, could actually mean the next few years, as whispers around 3 Body Problem’s second iteration and rumours that the creators would like to stretch the story to four seasons start to circulate. “I would love the opportunity to play Jin again and see where she goes in another season,” Hong tells me. “With what feels like the fate of humanity resting on her shoulders, I think there’s so much more there to explore and dive into, if we’re given the chance.” 

Jess wears Alaïa dress from Faradays, HardWear Graduated Link Necklace in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Bracelet in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, Lock Ring in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

What strikes me most about Hong is that, for an actor at the start of her career, she possesses the kind of perspective I would expect from someone who has been in it for far longer. About starring in one of the year’s most notable series, she is grateful and grounded; about being recognised for her work, she is realistic and reticent; and about performing (for the first time) under the pressures of a huge cast and crew, visual effects, blue screens and multiple sets, she articulates that it was “a good reminder of her own resilience.” About the future, Hong is cautiously optimistic and despite the success that this project has enjoyed so far, she has no plans to move away from New Zealand quite yet. “There’s nothing like the feeling of coming home and being able to properly breathe out and relax,” the actor says.

“I do think you can get caught in a trap when you’re so focused on being an ‘actor’ that you forget to just live life… the whole point is that we’re trying to reflect humanity back to itself, right?”

Jess wears Ulla Johnson Lucienne silk dress from Muse, Alexandre Vauthier bow-embellished sandals from Faradays, Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. Sixteen Stone Ring with Diamond, Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. 36 Stone Bracelet in 18k Gold with Diamonds, Jean Schlumberger for Tiffany & Co. Ninety-Two Stone Necklace in Platinum and Gold all from Tiffany & Co.

When I ask Hong, given the experience she has just had, what kind of advice she’d offer to other young Kiwi actors with big aspirations she hesitates. “I don’t really feel qualified,” she says, “but I do think you can get caught in a trap when you’re so focused on being an ‘actor’ that you forget to just live life… the whole point is that we’re trying to reflect humanity back to itself, right? So don’t sweat the small stuff and remember that you’re just a human being, doing your best.” 

Jess wears Alaïa dress, Alexandre Vauthier jewel sandals from Faradays, HardWear Graduated Link Necklace in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, HardWear Large Link Earrings in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds, Lock Ring in White Gold with Pavé Diamonds all from Tiffany & Co.

Whether 3 Body Problem is renewed for another season or not (although chances seem high), I am confident that Hong is an actor at the start of a long and meaningful career. From her thoughtful demeanour to her grounded perspective, she is the kind of artist who, I expect will continue to chip away at her craft; carving out something unique in an industry that seems to be changing for the better. “I hope that I can be one of those people who make this path easier for younger generations and those who come after me,” she says, which is something I have no doubt she will do — and so much more.

Photographer Assistant Josh Szeto | Makeup Kirsty Penetito | Manicure Dasha Vishnevskaya. 

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We round up the best looks from the 2024 Cannes Film Festival

Cannes Film Festival is as much about what the movie stars are wearing on the red carpet as it is about their performances. As such, the festival has evolved to a place where fashion is the focus, seeing starlets and A-listers alike flexing their sartorial muscles and sauntering into screenings dripping in some of the most exquisite and rare jewellery ever made.

This year’s event has been no different, with a line-up of lauded brands and jewellery maisons sending their most eye-catching designs down the carpet to sparkle in the Côte d’Azur sun. From Rosie Huntington-Whiteley’s show-stopping Victoria Beckham ensemble paired with Tiffany & Co. jewellery to Bella Hadid’s racy Saint Laurent moment, with dazzling Chopard Jewellery accompanying a barely there, very sheer dress, these are some of the fashion and jewellery looks we have loved from this year’s Cannes.

Cannes Film Festival 2024
Our Editors’ Picks
Kirsten Dunst and Jesse Plemons both in Gucci
ROSIE HUNTINGTON-WHITELEY in Victoria Beckham (brand available locally from Muse) and Tiffany & Co. Jewellery
Demi Moore in (from left to right) Giorgio Armani, Oscar De La Renta and Christian Louboutin Heels, Balenciaga — all looks with Chopard Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
ELSA HOSK in Prabal Gurung and TIFFANY & CO. Jewellery
Candice Swanepoel in Vivienne Westwood and Chaumet High Jewellery (brand available locally from Hartfield Jewellers)
Chris Hemsworth in Tom Ford and Chopard Timepiece (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers) & Elsa Pataky in Giorgio Armani and Bulgari Jewellery
Alessandra Ambrosio in Peter Dundas Couture and Pomellato Jewellery (brand available locally from Orsini Fine Jewellery)
Elle Fanning in Gucci and Cartier Jewellery
Abbey Lee in Gucci
Zoe Saldaña in Saint Laurent
Aubrey Plaza in Custom Loewe (brand available locally from Faradays)
Naomi Campbell in Chanel Couture
Sienna Miller in Chloé and Chopard High Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
Juliette Binoche in Dior and Cartier Jewellery
Selena Gomez in Saint Laurent and Bulgari Jewellery
Léa Seydoux in Louis Vuitton
Julianne Moore in Bottega Veneta and Cartier Jewellery
ANYA TAYLOR-JOY in Dior and Tiffany & Co. Jewellery
Eva Longoria in Elie Saab and Pasquale Bruni Jewellery (brand available locally from Hartfield Jewellers)
Emma Stone in Louis Vuitton
Bella Hadid in Saint Laurent and Chopard Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
Paris Jackson in Jean Paul Gaultier and Pasquale Bruni Jewellery (brand available locally from Hartfield Jewellers)
Marina Ruy Barbosa in Gucci
Maria Borges in Chopard Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
katherine langford in Prada and Chopard High Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
Poppy Delevingne in Ermanno Scervino and Chopard Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
Diane Kruger in Atelier Versace and Chopard Jewellery (brand available locally from Partridge Jewellers)
Karolina Kaurkova in Valdrin Sahiti

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Considering trying your hand at Johnnie Walker’s Blue Eagle Challenge? Consult our Golfing Etiquette to give you the best shot at success

We walk a fine line in today’s modern world, no more so than on the golf course, where a minefield of stuffy tradition collides with an assemblage of friends with varying takes on appropriate behaviour. Given the increase in our collective passion for this sophisticated sport, those engaging in play should be encouraged to brush up on the required golf etiquette. The ‘golfer’s code’ — though often not strictly enforced — is in place to ensure golfers (and we use that term lightly) get the most out of their play — particularly when the stakes are as high as they are at the Johnnie Walker Blue Eagle Challenge, taking place over the coming weeks at Remuera Golf Course.

Remuera Golf Course

This year, Johnnie Walker is teaming up with the premiere Auckland golf club to celebrate two of life’s rare joys — shooting an eagle and Johnnie Walker’s iconic Blue Label whisky. Twelve of New Zealand’s best amateur golfers attempted the remarkable feat (which was only achieved by 53 people on the course last year) on Monday, alongside celebrities and golfing influencers, including Black Caps legend Grant Elliott, with two securing the elusive eagle on the 18th hole. The event officially kicked off the Johnnie Walker Blue Eagle Challenge, where across June, golfers are encouraged to try their hand at shooting an eagle on the par 5, 18th hole at Remuera Golf Club, to see how they stack up against the pros in a feat that, much like the sought-after Johnnie Walker Blue Label — is incredibly rare and hard to come by (Johnnie Walker Blue Label is a drop that only one in 10,000 of the best casks of Johnnie Walker are selected for).

To help you put your best foot forward when attempting this feat, we’ve crafted a (somewhat) comprehensive etiquette guide, meaning that all you have to worry about is enjoying yourself — and focusing on hitting that eagle — Godspeed.

Stepping Out In Style

Before you even step foot on the fairway, you must consider the dress code.

01. A collared polo. Minimal colour and branding, and under no circumstances are collars to be popped. Considered illegal in the golfing world, there are harsh penalties for such sartorial mishaps, starting with sideways glances and moving swiftly to loud sniggers, or worse still at lack of service at the 19th hole.

02. If you’re cold, a sweater may be donned, or even better — a sweater vest — bonus points for v-neck, double bonus for argyle print, triple word score for cashmere.

Will Smith and Matt Damon in The Legend of Bagger Vance

03. On the bottom half, jeans are an absolute no, as are sporting shorts or tracksuits. Formal shorts or trousers should be worn, skimming just above the knee — never below, never too short, and shirts should be tucked in at all times. Belts are encouraged. Pockets are essential.

04. Now, footwear. Novices needn’t race out and purchase golf shoes (although, if you want to look like you know what you’re doing even when you don’t, smart golf shoes with soft spikes or a hefty grip are a great start), but tidy footwear is essential. Bizarrely, it seems that boat shoes are appropriate on the course, and, even more bizarrely, so are loafers. We don’t make the rules.

05. Visors are an inspired addition to any golfing attire, while a branded cap is a great way to showcase your golfing prowess. Choose your brand wisely, as fellow golfers will be on high alert and ready to judge your every choice.

Basic Rules of Engagement

06. Be considerate of others, which means avoiding making any unnecessary noise. This includes but is not limited to swearing profusely when you miss your tee-off for the third time, celebrating by letting out an ear-piercing ‘cha-hoo’ when you finally do connect with the ball (despite it landing in the bunker), exclaiming about another player’s performance (despite your’s being terrible), sighing loudly while waiting for the group in front to move off the hole. Any other unnecessary chatter — golfing is a quiet sport — hush-hush.

Rory McIlroy

07. Turn your phone off. This is not, I repeat, this is not the time to capture Instagram content. You don’t look anywhere near as cool as you think you do.

08. Stay in your lane and give others space. Give the player whose turn it is the space they need to get the job done (remember, hush-hush), and stay on or close to the putting green until everyone’s had their turn.

Tiger and Charlie Woods

09. Hustle. A good game’s a fast game. Play at a prompt pace, and make sure you’re well-prepped for your next hit ahead of time. If you think your ball might be lost, it is. Play another.

10. Care for the course. Players should avoid causing damage to the course, which includes not hacking your club angrily into the ground every time you miss a shot, swinging around in circles and throwing your club as far as it will fly, and using your club as a walking stick or leaner when your legs get tired.

To Land an Eagle

An eagle is achieved when a golfer completes a hole two strokes under par — for example, on a par 5 hole, an eagle would be achieved with just three strokes.

11. Confidence is critical — we’re not going to lie, making an eagle ain’t easy, but that’s irrelevant. Approach the hole as if you’re Lydia Ko in her prime, and swing as if your life depends on it.

Lydia Ko

12. Concentration is king in golf (hence the associated frustration), so keeping cool, calm, and collected will go a long way. A sip of Johnnie Walker Blue Label and some deep breaths will work wonders in this regard.

This competition is now closed.

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Discover the story behind one of the world’s most iconic design brands, Knoll — and don’t miss this exclusive offer to add a piece to your collection

The epitome of revolutionary design, furnishings brand Knoll is renowned for its unprecedented, outside-the-box aesthetic that changes the way we think about furniture. A brand that continuously carves its own place in design history, its Knoll that can be trusted to deliver a stream of expertly crafted pieces that challenge the status quo.

It was a simple vision that inspired German-born designer Hans Knoll to move to New York City in 1938 and create his own furnishings brand: to create great designs that would enrich and improve people’s lives both at home and at work. A simple idea, but one which was executed superbly and in a way that no-one had quite managed before, it wasn’t long before the forward-thinking creative began making waves in the design sphere. In 1943, Knoll was joined by his wife, Florence, who crafted the now renowned Planning Unit, an interior plan that paved the way for offices for years to come. Not only the first office creation of its kind, but the first to be run by a woman, this was a profound moment that cemented the brand’s status as a revolutionary design force to be reckoned with, something which still rings true today.

From the coveted Platner set — a dining table and set of chairs that boast undulating shapes crafted by hundreds of curved steel rods, to the utterly iconic, leather upholstered Barcelona armchair, the unique, sculptural Bertoia collection, and the Bauhaus-inspired, instantly recognisable Cesca chair, with its sensual and simple curved steel frame and woven cane seat and back, Knoll’s designs have not only pushed the envelope in the world of modernist furniture design, but have proved enduring additions to home that are as desirable after years (or decades) of use as they are the day they’re purchased.

For those feeling inspired, locally Studio Italia stocks a wide variety of the brand’s original designs and is currently offering a rare discount that sees many of Knoll’s most iconic pieces reduced by up to 60 percent in-store. From the ever-enduring Wassily armchair to the Platner dining table and matching side chair, to the simple but stunning Saarinen side table, see this as your opportunity to secure a piece of history that will see you well into the future.

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KNOLL WASSILY ARMCHAIR from Studio Italia
KNOLL KLISMOS DINING CHAIR from Studio Italia
KNOLL SAARINEN DINING TABLE from Studio Italia
KNOLL FLORENCE KNOLL SOFA from Studio Italia
KNOLL CESCA DINING CHAIR from Studio Italia
KNOLL BARCELONA ARMCHAIR from Studio Italia
KNOLL KLISMOS BENCH from Studio Italia
KNOLL PANORAMIC SOFA from Studio Italia

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Umbrella Etiquette: A civilised guide to staying dry this winter

We’re creeping towards June, and winter is beginning to make its presence known. Blustery showers and high winds have arrived, which means its time to finally bring out that trusty old umbrella that’s been sitting, unused, at the back of your wardrobe. But be warned, there is a protocol associated with these accessories that should be adhered to at all times. Don’t fret if you’ve forgotten — those that need a refresher course on the dos and don’ts of umbrella-wielding can consult our handy guide below.

Denizen Guide
Umbrella Etiquette

01.

When a shorter person is approaching, always, always be sure to raise your umbrella and allow them to pass through — making your tallness known by poking somebody in the eye during the morning commute isn’t a great way to start the day.

02.

We shouldn’t really have to tell you this, but be considerate when you open your umbrella. Carry out a 360-degree surveillance and be mindful of anyone who may be standing close to you.

03.

Don’t open your umbrella indoors. It’s not bad luck, it’s just rude.

04.

When you’re carting around a dry umbrella, never tuck it under your arm like an old gentleman nursing a folded newspaper. Unless you’re hoping to impale some pesky slow walkers or those who impatiently walk hot on your heels. In which case, go right ahead.

05.

Try to carry an umbrella that’s actually appropriate for your size — small humans do not bode well with golf umbrellas.

06.

When leaving the house, don’t surreptitiously swap your old umbrella with one broken rib in favour of your flatmates’ new Blunt. Umbrella shame is far more manageable than a broken friendship.

07.

Don’t ever parade your umbrella around while bursting into a spontaneous recital of ‘Singing In The Rain.’ Just don’t.

08.

Close your umbrella if you are walking under a public covering, even if you will be underneath for just a few moments.

09.

If you’re battling the rain alongside somebody else, even if its a friend-of-a-friend that you’re not overly keen on, swallow your pride and share your rain shield. There’s a special place in hell for those that don’t.

10.

When entering a building or any form of public transport, close your dripping umbrella and dispose of it discreetly. If it’s a building, station it in the stand or the designated umbrella home, usually found by the door. Do not leave it on any form of furniture.

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Head of the Table — The hospitality icons who have made life-long careers in the industry

Words by Margie Riddiford, Sjaan Askwith and Claire Sullivan-Kraus
Photography & Videography by Anna Saveleva

It’s a commonplace misconception that the vast and varied world of hospitality is merely a temporary career that coexists with travelling the world, or studying. Yet the multi-billion dollar industry has also born some of our fondest personalities, along with some of our country’s greatest entrepreneurial success stories. Here, we set out to challenge perceptions by introducing some of the icons of the industry. Those who have chosen to dedicate their careers to bringing joy and elevating our own lives by sharing their passion for hospitality.

Many of us have been there; working at the local cafe, waiting tables in a fine dining restaurant, pouring beers behind the bar at a pub, or flipping burgers at a takeaway joint. Considered somewhat of a right of passage from school to career, working in hospitality is in fact a fast track education into understanding how the real world operates. Here, expectations run high and the pressure is always on, but when harmony is achieved the result is incredibly rewarding. People are drawn to the industry for the camaraderie, the building of self-confidence, the sparking of creativity and the connections that are made. There’s no denying the magic that comes from a full bar or dining room that’s humming with the energy of people enjoying themselves — all thanks to the efforts of a well conducted team of passionate people. This alone can sow the seed for future success. In New Zealand the $20+ billion dollar industry employs more than 200,000 people, making it one of our country’s largest business sectors, which in turn makes the opportunities for a lifelong, and fruitful career even greater. Still, there is a perception that it is there to serve as a transitory workplace while you’re figuring out where your real future lies. Yet stories of both success and satisfaction are everywhere. Be it as a chef, bartender, front of house, behind the scenes, a restaurant owner, or anything in between, within so many bustling kitchens and vibrant venues there are opportunities for connection, confidence, creativity, skill, and, most importantly: a career brimming with potential. The beauty of working in hospitality is that there’s not a formulaic, one-track path to success. A foot in the door is all you need, and once you’re in, skills build and, given their universality, can be easily transferred from one role to the next as your confidence and success grows. Pivoting through the industry until the right role clicks is part of the journey. To show just how true this is in practice, and how a career can grow from a simple weekend gig washing dishes, we sat down with some of Auckland’s hospitality icons to hear how they turned a passion into a craft, and a craft into a rewarding career. 

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Head of the Table

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High on the 90s — shop our edit of the small bags having a big impact this season

They say that the best things come in small packages, and in our experience, this is true for more than just sparkling things in tiny boxes. This season, small bags are taking centre stage, continuing to showcase why 90s-era style is here to stay. 

GIVENCHY Voyou shoulder bag from Net-a-Porter
Celine CLUTCH ON STRAP TABOU from Faradays
SERPENTI BAIA SHOULDER BAG from Bulgari
Croissant MM Bag from Louis Vuitton

JACKIE SMALL SHOULDER BAG from Gucci
STAUD Alec Bag from Muse
Sardine With Chain bag from Bottega Veneta
SAINT LAURENT Le 5 à 7 mini shoulder bag from Net-a-Porter

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The business of fashion: dress for success with our latest shopping edit

Get ahead of your competitors and dress to command the respect you deserve in the business world. For reimagined work attire, opt for chic takes on coats paired with silk shirts, skirts, and pants.

Pleated Flared Pants from Dior
b.Ziro necklace from Bulgari
Christopher Esber Talus Tailored Coat from Muse
Diamond Tilda Sling Back 45 from Jimmy Choo
Pasquale Bruni GIARDINI SEGRETI EARRINGS from Hartfield
Celine CLASSIC JACKET from Faradays
VLogo Moon bag from Valentino
Rolex DAY-DATE 40 watch from Partridge

Lavaliere collar jacket from Louis Vuitton
Solo Flex’it Chocker Necklace from Partridge
SHINY LEATHER MID-LENGTH SKIRT from Gucci
Cartier TANK AMÉRICAINE WATCH from Partridge
MACKAGE Carmela leather trench coat from Net-a-Porter
Nanis Libera Hoop Earrings from Orsini
VERSACE Leather straight-leg pants from Net-a-Porter
VICTORIA BECKHAM Darted Sleeve Tailored Jacket from Muse

Magic Alhambra long necklace from Van Cleef & Arpels
Kid mohair single-breasted jacket from Prada
CELINE ALMA TRIOMPHE SLINGBACK from Faradays
Skort with CD Buckle from Dior
EXTRA FINE RIB CASHMERE KNIT TOP from Gucci
LOEWE Puzzle Edge Small Bag from Faradays
BOTTEGA VENETA BV 1283 001 from Sunglass bar
BY MALENE BIRGER Tinley Wool Cardigan from Muse

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New Balance Made in USA 990v6 in black with white

Step out in style this season in New Balance’s Made in USA collection

New Balance needs little introduction. For the past century (plus), the family-owned brand has been crafting high quality, high performance, and often — whether intentionally or not, high fashion sneakers, with considered craftsmanship and unmatched utility at the fore.

Their latest release, the New Balance Made in USA 990v6, is a modern riff on their most classic and timeless sneaker. Originally designed in 1906, with subtle changes over time, the 990v6’s appeal remains universal today, offering a contemporary take on the classic sneaker design that elevates its everyday wearability. This iteration furthers the sneaker’s fashionable allure, thanks to sleek new materiality, while an update to the practical tech makes this shoe’s undeniable appeal all the more ubiquitous.

New Balance Made in USA 990v6 in black with white
New Balance Made in USA 990v6 in grey

As the name might suggest, the entire Made in USA collection is made in America — something that very few brands can lay claim to, with most American footwear now produced offshore. And while there are many hues on offer, from soft, pastel shades like maize and winter fog, to a warm, weather-ready neutral sandstone, a striking true camo, and macadamia nut and arctic grey iterations featuring contrasting black soles and two-tone hiking laces, it’s the original grey shades that have our attention. A perhaps little-known fact is that New Balance was the first sneaker producers to offer a grey sneaker. In a world of white, New Balance wanted to create a unique, urban offering — something that stood out while blending in with their surrounds. A colour now ubiquitous with the brand, and the shade that has remained New Balance’s calling card.

New Balance Made in USA 990v6 in black with white and grey

This dedication to carving a new path has always been central to the brand’s ethos, the Made in USA collection taking this one step further — born from an unwavering commitment to those who want to stand out from the crowd and express themselves fearlessly, without compromising on comfort and quality.

With an unwavering dedication to craftsmanship and innovation, New Balance is not only making strides in style — it’s setting the benchmark for what a sneaker brand should be.

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New Balance Made in USA 990v6
New Balance Made in USA 990v6 in grey available in Women’s and Men’s
New Balance Made in USA 990v6 in black with white available in Women’s and Men’s

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