Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti ring, Giardini Segreti bracelet, Giardini Segreti collier and Giardini Segreti earrings from Hartfield. Celine Square Collar top and skirt from Faradays.

We sit down with Lydia Peckham to talk Hollywood, homeschooling, honouring her dad, and how she navigates the highs and lows of life on screen.

Words by Sjaan Askwith | Photography by Guy Coombes | Styling by Claire Sullivan-Kraus | Creative Direction by Anna Saveleva | Videography by Mason Bennett | Shot on location at Rahimoana, Eagles Nest, Bay of Islands


From an idyllic childhood on an apple orchard in Nelson to starring in one of the year’s biggest blockbuster films — Kingdom of the Planet of the Apes — Lydia Peckham’s rise in Hollywood has been a journey defined by grit, instinct, and an undeniable screen presence. Her ascent accelerated further with a standout turn in Robin Hood, where her raw magnetism and nuanced performance caught the attention of international critics and casting directors alike, cementing her as one of New Zealand’s most compelling exports. Yet the inimitable actress is undoubtedly on the path to superstardom. Her most recent role in Nuremberg — a war thriller released in November 2025, in which Peckham stars alongside Russell Crowe, Rami Malek and Richard E. Grant — further solidifies her standing in Hollywood and offers a clear glimpse into her remarkable destiny.

Lydia Peckham, I quickly come to learn, is a natural-born actress. Originally from Edinburgh (her dulcet accent remains, despite having left Scotland as a child), Peckham and her family spent a handful of years in a remote Scottish village before relocating to Nelson — her parents having fallen in love with New Zealand during a campervan trip. Peckham’s upbringing was one that, she says, set her up for success in the career she would eventually go on to pursue, but not in a traditional sense. “I think that growing up in nature, both in Scotland and New Zealand, instilled in me a real sense of adventure. It’s where my imagination comes from, and where I developed a real curiosity about the world.” During those early, formative years in small-town Scotland, Peckham talks of a childhood spent barefoot and free, with her and her two siblings (one brother, one sister) spending much of their time exploring the surrounding forests, dreaming up whimsical stories, and tapping into their imaginations for entertainment, “Growing up, I spent so long — countless hours, delving into dreamt up characters to pass the time.” 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti rings, Heart to Earth choker, Petit Garden earrings and Giardini Segreti bracelet from Hartfield. Loewe Anagram sweater

With Peckham’s parents homeschooling, the family was afforded both freedom and flexibility, with an emphasis placed on education through exploration. Given both her mother and father were in environmental studies, nature became her alma mater — and it’s something that remains as fundamental to her life today as it was then, “I grew up in nature, and I’ve always felt pulled towards it. I don’t think that part of me will ever change.” 

“Growing up, I spent so long — countless hours, delving into dreamt up characters to pass the time.”

Peckham’s parents moved the family to sunny Nelson in the halcyon days of the early noughties, purchasing an apple orchard and beginning to dabble in cider production. It was then that Peckham and her siblings stepped into institutionalised schooling, and where she first discovered her love of performance. 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti ring, Giardini Segreti earrings and Giardini Segreti collier from Hartfield. Max Mara knit top, hat stylist’s own.

She talks of naturally picking up drama as a subject once she reached high school and beginning to dedicate more and more time to what, as she puts it, lit her inner fire. “[Acting] was never something my parents pushed on me,” the actress makes clear, “It’s just what made me happy.” Peckham got involved with the SGCNZ University of Otago Sheila Winn Shakespeare Festival, where she began to perform on stage and build a profile. And, while Peckham’s performances at The Globe were the catalyst for her momentum, it was after school when she got into the country’s preeminent acting school, Toi Whakaari, that she realised, perhaps for the first time, that she might really be able to make something of herself in an industry notoriously difficult to find success in. 

Peckham found confidence in a mentor, Vaughan Slinn, who acknowledged her talent and gave her the impetus to put herself out there. “You’re so insecure as an actor,” she admits, “A lot of us have an inner ambitious voice, but there are moments — and people, that help you to own that.” Slinn was one such person for Peckham, “He just believed in me,” she gratefully recalls, saying that sometimes you just need someone else to validate your instincts.

“The one thing I’ve learned how to do is create a meaningful, fulfilling life and identity outside of acting.”

And it was here, at acting school, that Peckham honed her craft — connecting more deeply to the innate parts of herself she always knew existed but didn’t necessarily have the language to describe. “I’ve always been drawn to movement as a means of communication,” she muses, “and at Toi, I was able to rationalise and give life to what I’d always been driven by.” It’s little wonder, then, that her biggest break thus far — the blockbuster film Kingdom of The Planet of The Apes, saw her playing a role based almost entirely on the mastery of movement. “For my Apes audition, I was back in Nelson with family, as my dad had just passed away,” Peckham reflects, “I didn’t want to ask for anyone’s help, and I knew I couldn’t do the audition in front of a white wall, so I took my camera and a bungee cord and climbed up the tallest tree in our orchard.” She continues, “And I just did the audition in the tree. The birds were chirping, the sun was filtering through the leaves casting these incredible shadows, and everything just happened at the perfect time for the dialogue — it was such a beautiful take.” Peckham recounts with relish, recalling the moment that essentially changed her life. 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Petit Joli earrings, Petit Joli Sautoir, Petit Joli bracelets and Petit Joli rings from Hartfield. Christopher Esber dress, Gianvitto Rossi Futura mules.

In Kingdom of The Planet of The Apes, Peckham’s character, Soona, is a kind, playful, and wise ape (qualities that could just as quickly be used to describe the actress herself), who belongs to the spiritually-led Eagle clan. In preparation for the role, Peckham and her fellow actors were put into ‘Ape School’ — an intensive, six-week training where they were guided to release their inhibitions and tap into their primal instincts, “There’s this dungeon-like space under Fox Studios where we spent weeks learning to (ironically) move out of our ‘monkey minds’ and embody the essence of an ape,” Peckham recounts, “I would be put in a mirrored room, with my fellow actors, and for four straight hours we’d have to just be apes. You’d be shocked at what happens when your inhibitions go out the window.” 

And while the overarching premise of the film is centred on a young chimpanzee’s journey to determine the future for apes and humans, as with all of the films within the enduring franchise, the beauty lies in the less overt, arguably more relevant and realistic themes that speak so beautifully to humanity. From our relationship with nature to the complexities of information sharing to power, oppression, and empathy. Given how thoughtful and observant Peckham seems, I’m interested to know whether any of the film’s themes struck a particular chord with her. Unsurprisingly, nature claiming back its power is the first that comes to mind, “It’s a really interesting take on the fact that, at the end of the day, we all live within the boundaries of nature — there is no greater force.” 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti earrings, Giardini Segreti collier, Heart to Earth choker and Heart to Earth bracelets from Hartfield. Yvette dress from Reine. Christopher Esber Minette crystal micro heels.

Peckham reflects on filming coming to an end, telling me that the highs and lows are immense, “The one thing I’ve learned how to do is create a meaningful, fulfilling life and identity outside of acting,” pragmatically stating that the roles might not keep coming forever, and that, if the work does dry up, she feels that having a full life outside of acting puts the power back with her. 

As such, Peckham’s life is split between the “tangible” day-to-day (as she describes it) of life in quiet Kerikeri and the intangible, wild world of Hollywood acting. And her life outside of work seems very full indeed. Peckham and her long-term partner have recently begun building a family home on an 8000 sqm plot of native bush in Kerikeri, “Tapping out and zooming into the micro things is something that makes what I do feel sustainable.” Peckham tells me, saying that she finds purpose at home in gardening, cooking, hiking, and volunteering as a diversional therapist at a retirement home, entertaining the local elderly community — a far cry from glitzy premières and fast-paced, fantastical, high-octane days on set. I’m curious as to how she switches between the two disparate facets of her life so seamlessly and navigates the discombobulation I imagine comes with frequently shifting places and lifestyles, “You go from these huge, energetic, soul-filling moments on set to this kind of nothingness, so you need to make your life at home just as soul-filling, just in different ways.” She tells me, “It also helps that my partner’s job means he can be relatively nomadic, travelling with me wherever my roles take me. He’s become my constant, making the transition from set to home much easier.” 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti earrings and Giardini Segreti ring, Accendimi bracelet from Hartfield. Shorts from Reine, Celine blouse.

And despite being on these incredible sets and filming alongside some of the world’s greatest actors and directors, Peckham explains that, for her, the highlight will always be the people she has the privilege of working alongside, “I’m yet to come across an asshole in this business,” she states with candour, “Everyone I’ve worked with so far has been wonderful. And while I don’t doubt that the rumours are true and there are some horrible people in Hollywood, I’ve only ever found the opposite,” she laughs. “These are my people,” she tells me, before explaining that the toughest part of the job is saying goodbye to her newfound family upon wrapping a piece of work.

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti earrings, Giardini Segreti ring and Giardini Segreti Sautoir from Hartfield. Dress from Gucci.

When we speak, Peckham has recently wrapped filming on Nuremberg — a political thriller set against the backdrop of post-war Germany, which chronicles the eponymous trials held by the Allies against the defeated Nazi regime. In the film, Peckham plays Lila, a young journalist covering the Nuremberg trials. The role, Peckham tells me, was a marked departure from Apes, “Nuremberg was a totally different experience. Where Apes was very physical and technical, this film was academic and dialogue-heavy, and filming was fast-paced,” she recalls, adding that Rami Malek was amazing to work alongside, “He was such an incredible scene partner and so connected to the work.” For Peckham, Nuremberg feels like the first time people will really see her in her essence — a fact that both excites and terrifies her. 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Aleluiá earrings, Aleluiá choker and Aleluiá bracelet from Hartfield. Sequinned dress from Sportmax.

We begin to discuss what the future looks like, and when she mentions that one day she’d love to make something that embodies the spirit of Alice in Wonderland, I hide a smile, recalling that, just half an hour earlier, as Peckham told the tale of her upbringing, I’d sat picturing her as a modern-day Alice. When I tell her this, she’s thrilled, saying that for her, Alice enlivens the sense of wonder and playfulness that her late father instilled in her at a young age. “Dad was wild, wacky, off-beat,” she fondly remembers (it’s only been two short years since his passing), telling me that he challenged her to follow life’s impulses, saying that it doesn’t matter if the decisions you make are right or wrong, because you’re never going to get anywhere by staying stationary. “Dad showed me that life is so wonderful and wild and playful, and that, if you can find a way to tap into the magic of all of that, you’ll have an exhilarating ride,” adding that, for her, Alice in Wonderland has always captured that so beautifully. When I ask whether there’s a particular quote from the story that feels meaningful to her, Peckham tells me there are many, and bubbles over as she lists them off to me, but the one that lands the strongest is, “Why, sometimes I’ve believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast.” Not only perfectly capturing her work, but embodying Peckham’s character wholly. 

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Aleluiá earrings, Aleluiá choker and Aleluiá bracelet from Hartfield. Sequinned dress from Sportmax.

And, just as Alice falls down the rabbit hole and lands in a fantastical land of whimsy and wonder, Peckham has landed in a magical world of her own, making her way from small-town New Zealand to starring in blockbuster films alongside a slew of Hollywood heavyweights — something the humble actress will never take for granted. “My whole life feels like a pinch me moment,” she tells me, recalling a recent 48-hour period where she found herself jetting off from the Nuremberg set to LA for the Kingdom of The Planet of The Apes première, then back to set the next day, saying that the pace is so incredibly addictive. After recounting the experience, Peckham expresses guilt over the frequency at which she has to travel for work. Given her platform (or, I get the impression, even without one), she feels a sense of responsibility to do what she can — both environmentally and politically. 

“Dad showed me that life is wonderful and wild and playful… if you can tap into the magic of that, you’ll have an exhilarating ride.”

We discuss the pressure, as a public figure, to be political on social media, and the actress states that she thinks there’s real bravery in that, but for her, she has her own version of what feels right, which doesn’t include the need to broadcast her actions. 

On social media as a whole, she’s ambivalent, “I think it can be an incredible platform, and now, with acting, it somewhat comes with the territory,” she tells me. But we agree that it can be both a blessing and a curse. And, when I think about it, I’m surprised she has social media at all (the actress notes, during our conversation, that [co-stars] Rami Malek and Russell Crowe have both so far swerved it).

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Aleluiá earrings, Aleluiá choker, Aleluiá bracelet and Aleluiá ring from Hartfield. Sequinned dress from Sportmax.

The topsoil posturing of social media feels like the antithesis of Peckham and her wholesome life in small-town New Zealand. But, one look at her channel might tell you the opposite (as Instagram often does) — her posts are peppered with glitzy premières and filming highlights, dinners with Leo Woodall, and football games with Colin Hanks, but scroll back a little further, and there she is — the Lydia I see so plainly. The one who, up until recently, spent three years living in a van, traversing the country until the next job came up. 

While we’re on the topic of politics, we discuss the dichotomy that working women grapple with. Peckham doesn’t yet have kids but would one day love to be a mother, and at just 28, she’s already questioning how she’d juggle acting and motherhood. Luckily, she tells me, given the freedom her partner has in his work, she’d have his full support when filming 12-plus-hour days, for months on end, across the globe. But there’s time to figure all that out.

Lydia wears Pasquale Bruni Giardini Segreti earrings, Heart to Earth choker, Heart to Earth necklace, Heart to Earth rings and Heart to Earth bracelets from Hartfield. Dress stylist’s own.

For now, Peckham is eagerly awaiting the release of Nuremberg and is focused on building her home in Kerikeri. In a work capacity, what comes immediately next is still up for debate, but long-term, the actress dreams of bringing together a host of creative talent that perhaps haven’t yet been given their big break and showing the world what they’re made of, “I know so many incredible creatives that, for one reason or another, haven’t been given a shot — and I’d love to somehow get into a position to bring those artists together to create something incredible.”

On a personal note, Peckham is keen to explore roles that more closely speak to her innate sense of self, “Those off-beat worlds are where I would love to play in more,” she tells me, stating that she’s always been drawn to clowning and comedy and would love to see what she can do in that space. And, given the name on both the acting and directing credits and hype-to-date, I think that after Nuremberg’s release, Peckham won’t have a shortage of offers rolling in. 

But, as I’ve come to learn of the genuine, grounded, and quintessentially Kiwi actress in the time we’ve spent together, whatever comes her way will be tackled with passion, pride, and a playfulness that will continue to set her apart.

Hair & Makeup: Kiekie Stanners. Photographer assistant: Josh White. Retouch Artist: Annalee Hart. Videographer assistant: Rachel Moyle.

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When I was pregnant I made a list of things that I was going to ban from my house upon my children’s arrival: Crocs, Tickle Me Talking Elmo, slime, playdoh, all battery-operated toys, and light-up sneakers — to name just a few. But had I known about you, Elf on the Friggin Shelf, you would have been right up there at the top of the list.

Back then, as I waddled around gorging myself on festive carbs, I was blissfully unaware that you and your jingle-bell-festooned get-up were sweeping the nation, fast becoming a Christmas fixture for unsuspecting parents everywhere. Being out of the loop gives you a certain sense of liberty and ignorance, after all.

Then, several years into my children’s lives, just when the whole concept of Christmas was becoming an utterly excessive spectacle of indulgence that they owned with gusto, my mother-in-law showed up — with you! And, before I could stop her, she ignited what has become a ridiculous family tradition. 

I must admit that initially, I saw the benefits of your presence. You gave me hope that I could wield a new level of control over my children’s behaviour, particularly during the silly season. Because, let’s be honest, no child will ever mess with Santa, nor his friendly little eyes and ears. And that’s where I thought you, Elf on the Shelf, would come in handy.

I quickly learned that you are, in fact, just a secret ploy disguised as an act of kindness, sent to torture me for being a parent. But I played the game regardless. I thought, how long could it really last? My children are eight and ten, and already they’ve noticed that the wrapping paper for the gifts they receive from Santa looks suspiciously like the roll they found his in the back of the hallway cupboard. I know, that they know, that I know, and that they are keeping this very telling fact to themselves. Because why would they do anything to jeopardise their gifts on Christmas Day? Without Santa and his special, overflowing Santa sack on the bedroom door, their gifts would be halved, and their magical and overindulgent Christmas mornings would change forever.  

So, of course, we continue this little ruse, promoting you as the ‘eyes and ears’ of the Big Guy, sending back reports on any bad behaviour. I figure I have one more year of decking the halls and moving you around in the dead of night. One more year and then, you’re done. 

Don’t get me wrong. I’m really not a Scrooge. I admit that I sometimes feel warm and fuzzy when I look at you, Elf on the Friggin Shelf, and am filled with nostalgia for the joys of Christmas past. But now, when I have to set my alarm to move you to yet another, creepy location in the middle of the night, from where you can ‘spy on us’, and then come up with some sort of soft, yet clearly threatening written verse encouraging my children to exhibit good behaviour (including stopping their daily menacing of the cat), I don’t feel quite so warm-hearted.

I’m also not feeling creative. My daughter recently expressed her disappointment in you. She doesn’t think you’re very “sneaky.” Sometimes you forget to move or write a new message for several days. Apparently, you are a bit of a dud — which, indirectly, means that I am a dud. Thanks for that. So to assist your creativity, Elf, I recently knocked back a few spiked eggnogs and left you, and your rather sternly-worded note with a naked Barbie and Ken in an age-inappropriate position. You see what type of a person I have become having to play along with this ridiculous ruse? 

It was so much easier when I was a kid. Santa came down the chimney, dumped a couple of random presents that I definitely did not ask for, nor want, and went on his merry way. Now, I have to leave sparkly reindeer food, cookies, milk and beer out for the Big Man and his team. I have to hide gifts, disguise my handwriting on name tags, secretly wrap presents, and go to some extreme (potentially illegal) lengths to get my hands on the newest Jellycat that is, of course, sold out and does not ship to New Zealand. How much can one parent handle?

So, view this as your last hurrah, mate. Maybe this year, throw a little of that magical imagination of yours into the mix. Perhaps you could draft a few words of forceful encouragement to my children, suggesting they direct some of their Christmas cheer towards the person that has given them the gloriously indulgent life they enjoy so much. Maybe she is deserving of a faraway tropical island escape this summer. Sans children, obviously. Now that sounds like the ultimate Christmas cheer. 

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Man O' War Forest Flight Zipline

Your chance to discover Waiheke from above with Man O’ War’s Forest Flight Zipline & Kauri Forest Walkway

If you thought you knew Waiheke, think again. One year on from its debut, Man O’ War’s Forest Flight has fast become one of the island’s most extraordinary experiences, offering a rare, elevated journey through untouched canopies, ancient kauri and sweeping coastal vistas that reveal a side of Waiheke few ever see. We’re giving one reader the chance to win an exclusive day out at Man O’ War for two, complete with return ferry tickets direct to the vineyard with Explore ferries, a Forest Flight experience for two, and a $200 restaurant and tasting room voucher.

Set on the island’s remote eastern edge, the Forest Flight unfolds across three tandem ziplines spanning more than 900 metres, linked by 660 metres of gently winding boardwalk through the historic Man O’ War Forest, an ecological sanctuary with more than 300 years of natural heritage. This is not the usual adrenaline-fuelled zipline; it’s an immersive, almost meditative way to experience the wild beauty of Waiheke from above. A full-sit, hands-free, forward-facing harness ensures a smooth, comfortable glide (no spinning, no lurching), while the dual layout lets you share every gasp-inducing moment side-by-side.

Your adventure begins with a short drive through the property’s forest and vineyard, arriving 210 metres above sea level to panoramic views across the Hauraki Gulf and out toward the Coromandel Peninsula. From here, your descent winds through native bush as knowledgeable guides share stories of the land, its flora and fauna, and the enduring majesty of the kauri that rise above the boardwalks. The rhythm shifts between tranquil strolls beneath dappled light and exhilarating flights across the treetops, culminating in a final, soaring sweep that delivers you to the ridge above Man O’ War Bay.

The experience continues, Man O’ War’s beachfront cellar door and restaurant offer one of Waiheke’s most unforgettable settings. Here, the sun-soaked lawn spills onto golden sand, long communal tables shaded by pōhutukawa and the gentle soundtrack of waves meeting the shore. Man O’ War’s award-winning wines are the natural order of the afternoon, poured alongside a menu designed for sharing (and lingering). While kingfish crudo and harissa chicken are perennial favourites, the most coveted orders are the pizzas. Think pepperoni with tomato and mozzarella, classic margherita, indulgent fungi with truffle oil, or the prosciutto with stracciatella and pickled melon. 

As the afternoon unfolds, Man O’ War’s lively summer sessions set the tone across select days in December and January, as some of the country’s top DJs add an appropriate soundtrack to lazy days that stretch happily towards sunset.

All of which culminate in one fantastic way to spend a day, exploring the forest, savouring one of the country’s most celebrated wines, lounging under trees, and cooling off with a dip in the beautiful Man O’ War Bay. This is the kind of New Zealand summertime experience that we wait for all year.

Getting to this idyllic corner of the island has never been easier. Explore now offers direct sailings from Auckland’s Viaduct to Man O’ War Bay in around 90 minutes, delivering you straight to the beach with no transfers required. Book Man O’ War Forest Flight here.

To enter, simply head to the Instagram post below and tag a friend you’d like to head to Man O’ War with. Your prize can be redeemed until December 31st 2027, and scheduling is dependent on availability. See here for full terms and conditions.

Man O’ War Opening hours:
Forest Flight: Monday – Sunday: 9.00 am – 3.00 pm
Tasting Room & Restaurant: Monday –  Sunday:  11.00 am – 5.00 pm

manowar.co.nz

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Graff

Representing metamorphosis, Graff’s Butterfly collection holds the power to transform any outfit

Since its debut in 1975, the Graff Butterfly has evolved from a singular high jewellery creation into one of the House’s most cherished signatures. Over the decades, it has been reinterpreted in a range of pieces that capture the lightness and poise of this captivating creature. Today, the Butterfly collection continues to flutter between artistry and wearability, offering exquisite rings, earrings, bracelets and necklaces adorned with Graff’s exceptional diamonds.

While the original high jewellery masterpieces remain at the pinnacle of the House’s craftsmanship, it is the contemporary interpretation of the Butterfly that allows collectors and admirers alike to share in this magic. Each piece distils the same spirit of transformation and grace into designs that can be worn every day, reflecting Graff’s ability to make the extraordinary beautifully accessible.

The collection showcases the Maison’s unmistakable mastery of diamonds. Brilliant and marquise-cut stones are meticulously arranged to capture the delicate symmetry of a butterfly in motion. Some pieces are defined by pavé-set diamonds that shimmer with every gesture, while others feature a single, perfectly proportioned stone at the centre, radiating quiet confidence and elegance.

Beyond its dazzling design, the Butterfly holds deep symbolic meaning. It represents renewal, optimism and the power of metamorphosis, making it an emblem of personal growth and self-expression. To wear one is to carry a touch of that transformation, a reminder that beauty lies in evolution.

At the Graff boutique in Auckland, the Butterfly’s story continues to unfold. Here, visitors can experience first-hand the artistry, innovation and heritage that have defined Graff for over six decades. From the brilliance of the high jewellery collections to the timeless refinement of the Butterfly pieces, each creation offers a glimpse into the world of one of the most prestigious jewellery houses on earth. A legacy of light, movement and mastery that continues to take flight.

Classic Butterfly Petite Diamond Ring from Graff
Pavé Butterfly Abstract Diamond Necklace from Graff
Pavé Butterfly Diamond Necklace from Graff

Pavé Butterfly Diamond Drop Earrings from Graff
Pavé Butterfly Diamond Bracelet from Graff
Triple Butterfly Silhouette Diamond Earrings from Graff
Butterfly Silhouette Open Diamond Bangle from Graff

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Hosting a dinner party this holiday season? Brush up on your etiquette with this simple guide

The good old-fashioned dinner party is experiencing somewhat of a revival. Back from the 80s minus the fondue sets and the awkwardness of house keys left in a bowl at the door, the new at-home entertaining is a sophisticated yet still revelrous affair.

While the food is a key ingredient of the occasion, the true essence of a great dinner party lies in the social aspect of bringing people together to “break bread” while they marvel at your culinary prowess, obviously. As with any good social occasion, though, the dinner party ritual is one that comes with a few dos and don’ts. These handy hints, if abided by, will ensure that both host and guest have a memorable evening.

Host Responsibility:

1.

The guest list should be a healthy mix of old friends and new acquaintances, and, if you’re
feeling really dangerous, a mixture of friends with contrasting opinions to really get the lively debate going. Enforcing a seating plan will further display the wonders of your social engineering tactics. 

2.

The essence of a great seating plan follows a few simple rules: Quiet people should be seated next to, or in between, the rowdy. Less intellectual people should never be seated near the intelligent. Likewise, the dull should never be seated next to the clever. Singles should, at every opportunity, be seated together to guarantee your name check in any potential wedding speeches.

3.

Ensure that the menu consists of something a little out of the ordinary – bordering on the extraordinary.  Be mindful, though. Despite how undeniably impressive it might seem, embarking on one of Heston Blumenthal’s liquid nitrogen-infused molecular gastronomy recipes may well result in a disaster of epic proportions, à la Bridget Jones’ infamous blue soup. Also, be mindful that anything that can be prepared well in advance will do wonders for your composure on the evening, and will instil a sense of overwhelming control in your gathered guests.

4.

For a truly memorable experience, you may wish to consider selecting wines that match each of the courses you are serving. While this may seem a little over the top, your guests will appreciate the fact that they don’t have to endure a green sauvignon blanc brought by another guest with your hearty rendition of Chateaubriand. 

5.

As a host, you have the responsibility to maintain order. If you have embarked on a journey of extreme social engineering, it is also your responsibility to play umpire. You will need to ensure that the conversation remains a reasonable debate rather than morphing into an ugly, or, heaven forbid, violent rage.

People you should avoid inviting:

The extreme partier

Telltale signs: Constant yawning, sallow eyes, and a slightly stale aroma. No one cares how awesome last night’s party was when your breath stinks and you’re sweating a lot. While it’s great that you’ve shown commitment and turned up, may we suggest that perhaps it’s time you went home and got some sleep.

The alpha guest

Telltale signs: Never shows interest in anyone else’s thoughts or opinions. Plays conversation king for the entire evening, chewing off the ear of anyone who will listen with stories of his tenure as captain of his High School’s first fifteen, two decades ago. 

The foodie

Telltale signs: Asks what you’re planning to cook when you pose the invite. Asks if you need any help. Arrives and immediately checks your cooking progress, and comments on what you could be doing wrong. In extreme cases, the foodie will, in fact, take over all cooking tasks, leaving the host to turn to drinking in shame in the corner.

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Ninja Luxe Café Premier Espresso Machine

Take your morning coffee on the road with you this summer with this sleek machine

Bringing barista-quality coffee to the comfort of home, the Ninja Luxe Café is the future of your sacred coffee-making ritual. With the bandwidth to make espresso, cold brew, and filter coffee and neatly bundled into the one sleek design, the Ninja Luxe opens up a world of coffee possibilities. As summer beckons, we’ll be utilising ours to craft espresso martini cocktails by the beach or to refuel with a cold brew over ice the morning after. While going off-grid for the holidays might mean farewelling your favourite cafes, bars and eateries for the interim, there’s absolutely no need to forgo cafe-quality coffee while you’re out of town. Available in finishes like Stainless Steel, Midnight Black, Gunmetal, and Cyberspace, the Ninja Luxe Café is as sleek as it is multifunctional.

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Fope’s signature Flex’it bracelets are redefining everyday wristwear

It’s not often the luxury jewellery space gets a genuinely revolutionary new design, but when Fope, exclusively available at Partridge, launched its signature Flex’it bracelets in 2007, the world of wristwear was forever changed. Engineered with tiny gold springs built into the Novecento weave, Fope’s signature flexible bracelets offer a modern way to elevate your everyday accessories.

FOPE Flex’it Bracelet with Pink Diamonds from Partridge
FOPE Rose Gold Luna Bracelet from Partridge
FOPE Solo Flex’it Yellow Gold Bracelet from Partridge
FOPE Luna Flex’it Bracelet from Partridge
FOPE Vendôme White Gold Flex’it Ruby Bracelet from Partridge
Flex’it Bracelet with Diamonds Rose from Partridge
FOPE Vendôme Men’s Yellow Gold Flex’it Bracelet from Partridge
FOPE Vendôme Bracelet Pave Yellow from Partridge

Not requiring any clasps or openings, these feats of design simply stretch to slip easily onto your wrist, despite being made of solid gold. Worn individually, they are understated and elegant, but stacked together, they create an opulent statement that moves with the wearer. Each bracelet is crafted in Italy with Fope’s distinctive mesh design, delivering comfort, fluidity, and a sense of luxury. Whether mixed in various widths or featuring different metals and diamond accents, the effect is effortless and chic.

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